I’m a very detail-oriented, organized person. Sometimes, in my own opinion, too organized. I file away reminders and to-do lists in my trusty dated tickler file, which helps keep me organized and on top of things. The system works great, except when, in a moment of panic, I think of something I need (for example, directions to an appointment), which I had forgotten were already written down and tucked safely away in the tickler file for the actual day of my appointment! I guess I just need to trust that I have a system in place that will help me get from Point A to Point B.
The point is I think I’m too hard on myself sometimes. It’s good (I think) to have high expectations for my actions and the way I live my life, but I should not expect myself to be perfect. This applies whether I’m thinking about my organizing skills, working on a project, or washing my car.
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